To Bibi and anyone else interested in giving me advise

Okay you better be ready to read a lot if you going to do this I’ll try to make this as short as possible. alright last night I was with my gf which is now my ex and we were having the best time we ever had and out of the blue she says "I kind of like my best friends crush" and you know I try to do my best to keep my cool and not flip out I mean hey what can you do right? If someone stops liking you best you can do is be calm and not flip out. so I did I was like okay what do you want me to do about it I’m not going to force you to love me, and out of no where I thought she was bipolar for a minute she’s like I’m sick and tired of you its over. So I was like what do you mean she’s “like that it’s over between me and you”, so I was like alright can you at least tell me the reason why did I do something? she’s like "no, you didn't do anything is not enough for me to be mad at you for so I was like can you tell me anyways and she’s like "I was expecting a different reaction from you" I told her that it didn't make any fucking sense but I was like alright is cool you want to know what I feel like, so I cussed her out used the word fuck, fucking, bitch, shit and like every cuss word I knew like a million times and then she was like that’s better. So I was like....? WTF?! I felt like someone hit me with a brick on the face that’s how surprised I was I was speechless for what felt like 5 minutes, and then when I managed to pull my self out of the anger and all the rage going threw me I was like wtf do you mean that’s better? You’re a fucking twisted bitch, do you fucking get off on other peoples misery? you said its over so its fucking down I can joke about almost anything in the world and this isn’t fucking one of them you crossed the line, you know I’m not the type to hold grudges its to much work but you little bitch I fucking hate you with every fiber of my being you think you can fucking screw around with my emotions just so your sorry ass can feel better? wth is wrong with YOU!!! I mean you honestly thought that was okay and I was just going to be all peachy and be like I love you at the end? And then she started crying I was like wtf?! Are you crying? You think I give a fuck? So she was walking away from me and I thought she was going to get a tissue or something out of no where I see a book flying at me and the bitch starts screaming and throwing shit at me. so after all that happens it goes on for a while I go home I’m pissed off beyond description like I just wanted to hit someone on the face to relieve some anger but I’m more mature then that I learned from my mistakes so I work out instead, but here is were I need advice at. I don’t think I did anything wrong I’d try to act calm when she told me she kind of liked someone else and in all my years of dating I have never been dumped and I knew sooner or later it was going to happened and i was ready for it. I have always remained friends with all my exs in fact like bestest friend with some but I’m so pissed of that the first time I got dumped was because I didn't flip out on the girl I was dating? wth happened to logic? People have always told me violence is not good in a relationship and I tried to keep it that so that if we brake up everything is cool between the both of us. But this bull shit is beyond belief I mean if you read all this, seriously you see where I’m coming from right? I wouldn’t have mind if she broke up with me for another reason but shit she tried to pull of is unforgiveable and I want to know how many people think I was at fault and why or if she was because this is going to stay with me for a while I don’t know how to deal with a bad brake up, and she keeps calling my house scream and yelling at me...so I’d appreciate some of your comments regarding the matter. And obviously I’m pissed and if she broke up with me I would have mind but I wouldn’t be having the reaction I’m having now, I mean what am I going to do if someone dumps me cry? It Isn’t going to fix or do anything.

Lmao!! I'm sorry but I too was wth is wrong with that girl?.... lol!! seriously the way it looks like is that she likes the attention and wanted to see how much control she has over you, In my H.S. years I done that!! lol!! is more to see the reaction she can cause in you... I think she does care about you alot if not why would she still be calling you... the fact is that she wanted to test your feelings and it pretty much backed fired on her.... lol! we girls are vicious and when we see we are loosing control of something we happen to test the waters and see our other parties reaction, and it so happen that the result we look for is confusing to you guys... we just want to see how much you care for us, and if you will still get jealous when we get others attention... but your rite she shouldn't play like that she should just be straight up, i mean if she really cares for that other guy then she should just leave you alone and move on, so that you can do the same, you have no fault, she is just confused, and like i said likes the attentions, and when you over reacted that is exacly what she was looking for!!! the girl have issues that she needs to work on. obviously!!!

LMAO, your going to laugh when i tell you this, but were back together, i'm really not the type that can stay mad at anyone, and when i heard from her friends that every time she thought about me she started crying, and said that she wish she hadn't tried to test me and felt depressed and so on etc... i just couldn't help it but to forgive her, truth be told i love her and i didn't want to end it over something so stupid, and what got me mad was her friend was like btw we all knew you guys were going to get back together, and my friend was like wow...that lasted what? not even a day, but yeah i'm glad i'm back with her, and i told her that she never has to feel insecure around me that my body, mind, heart, and soul only knew how to love her, so if she ever wants me to make her feel better just ask xP. i dont like being tested. i'll try my best to help her work threw her issues xP thats why i love her shes not perfect.

lmao! that's good like I said and knew she was testing you... we women do things like that.... but congratulations... hope everything gets better. she just need to work on her self and time will take its turn... it did with me.... but I wasn't that bad. lol!! she just needed to be secure on your feelings.. so I am really glad for both of you!!! and you have a great head on your shoulder, if only all man will turn like you for the good!!! ;)

lmao. thx i think you give me to much credit, but i'm actually glad that happened to us, because what doesn't kill a relationship can only make her stronger, and before i wasn't 100% sure if i loved her, i mean i'm still not you can never be 100 perfecnt on these things, but i'd hate to admit it but i like someone needy like that wants me for herself and no one else but her, lets me know she cares. well i gotta go to class soon, but i'll be on later on xP, then back to class again -_- but then i get to go home xD

lol! well I wish you luck and pray that she never goes bipolar on you again.... lmao!! have fun in class, i have to get back to work too, then school, then home!!! sounds like fun...huh? lol!! later!

From my perspective of this I think that you have every right to defend your emotions . She was being crucial and she didn't need to get all postal on you . What she was doing was trying to confuse you , and she got confused and hesistated in her own game . She didn't know how to play it right and thought that you would act a different way than you did , but you didn't act how she expected you to . But i also think you should leave the relationship with good closure . If she gets stupid with you then tell her what you was trying to get closure with her . That will make her feel like a dummy . Then leave her be .

sorry to burst your bubble but yannie i'm back together with her i'm way pass what i first wrote. we already made up and everything.

hey yannie i'm sorry if that came out the wrong way and sounded rude, if it did i didn't mean for it to come out that.

lmao!! no comment!!!

whats so funny hmm? care to share with us BIBI? xP lol

ok thanks Mysteryman you owe me one... lol! for putting me on the spot, sorry Yannie no offence but did she not read our whole entire conversation? she was toooo late.... and then it was just funny what you said... I'm sorry i was just in the giggle mood this morning, but it was nice that she atleast thought about sharing her opinion about it.. don't get me wrong... like I said maybe i was just in a giggle mood!sorry if I am offending you.. I apologize!!

lmao your not i thought it was funny as well thats why i always read the answers people give so i dont give advive when someone else already or if its to late. lo xP. you didnt offend me, omg i'm glad your on now i'm so bored you should keep talking to me.

Off from school today? I can't wait to get out of work so that I can go to Bike night tonight!!! lol!! I'm bored too at work.... same old same old!!! lol!

k you asked me to stay online and then you are no where to be found... LOL! thanks!! I think I did gave you toooo much credit!!! lmao!! just kidding!!! Have fun!

lol sorry i had to go to class.

that's good stay n go to school!! :) I have a problem, this idiota friend of mines, after all these time saying that he can control his emotions towards me, he started his crap again, this is what he text me today: "U must find it so silly & stupid of me 2 still b beleiving tat another time 4 us will ever happen? Lol! I know......." I told him that he knows i am not one to cheat on my husband, what ever happened between us before, i had seperated from my husband at the time, and when i got back with him, we promised each other never to cheat again, and i will not do that to him, I love him, therefore I don't want to hurt him anymore... this is what my friend send me back: "U know its amazing how i still after all this time put my foot in my mouth saying anything 2 u! How stupid 2 think & say, expecting something nice from U Expecting 2 keep a nice conversation with any of my thoughts is just wanting u 2 Shit on it as always! Just 4get i said anything! U change ur tone in a In a heart beat i can lose myself in a lil joy & happiness! In tat same amount of time u can destroy it with no shame! Lmao! 2 u i say F..k off! Im still good! & I aint goin 2 let u spoil my day! and this is what I send him back: "WHAT? U know I will take ur advice, I am going n fuck off now... thanks! I will refuse 2 disagree w/u 2day, as I am feeling sick!!! So my question is am i wrong? should i just let me friendship with him go? Ughhhh this is so complicated... HELP!!! :)

Well from what i understand his not getting the point across you need to get him to understand that what ever may have happpened between you guys was a one time thing and its not going to happen again, but you still want to be friends and if he takes it the wrong way the friendship aint worth saving because it only means to mean anyways that from the begining he helped you with hidden intentions. if he can't just be you friend then end it is that simple. If i were you i would tell him something like this," listen you need to understand what happened between us was a one time thing it was never supose to happen, and i need you to understand that, don't get me wrong i enjoy being your friend but i can't offer you anything else besides my friendship, now i'm going to make this as clear as possible don't get offended either take my friendship or leave it, if you don't want to be friends is a shame but fine, and i need you to lose my number and not talk to me anymore, bye and have a good life." don't say this to him before you tell me your going to, if he gives you an attitude i will write an essay on how to make him feel like shit, just straight up cuss him out make him feel worthless to get the message across. yes BIBI i have a very dark side to me in fact is so dark i try to never show it to anyone one because if the pure incarnation of pure evil. i can hurt a person with words worse then i can with my hands because broken bones heal but emtionally you'll never be the same after i go off on you, and i have never been forgiven after i went off on somene so think about it. xP don't think differently of me i'm still the same old me we all have what it takes to be evil i just choose to let it out i embrace it alone with good, lmao i got way of topic anyways get back to me when you read this.

well i gotta go to class, if you need to talk to me my personal e-mail is Jake.Martini@hotmail.com btw i kinda went of one that last post ignore most of it just read the beggining.

I send you an email!!!

sorry i'm not on sundays, and i got to your e-mail either friday night or saturday, still havent heard back from you, well have a nice day xP i'll be on for like another hour then after that i'll be back again in an hour and 40 mins or 2 hours.

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