Boyfriend is questionable

I have been dating my boyfriend for over 3 years. Every year he and his friends go to vegas for a long weekend trip. They are all around 50 years old, mostly married, and either cheat on their wives or rent hookers. Some are single and meet women there. Since they all live out of state, it is the one time they get together, minus a football game here and there. My boyfriend said I need to trust him, but is it wrong for me to feel this is inappropriate for him to attend at his age and in a serious relationship? Isn't one of the important things to remember is to avoid temptation? Am I wrong about this? No man in my family does this and my value system is not aligned with the belief it is ok. He claims he cannot control what his friends do and I should not punish him for it. I am deeply hurt by this and feel so disrespected. Am I wrong?

No your not, he said he can't control what his friends do and thats completely true, but he can control what he does, and for a man his age he sure doesn't act it, i mean don't get me wrong i'm not saying he should give up his life because of his age. you have every right to feel the way you do so he needs to get that across, and his buddies probably do cheat on their wives men their age hell of all ages tend to cheat when they get to much freedom, and their wives don't do anytihng about it. I know from personal experience how good tempetation looks and feels but they need to learn that their not at that age anymore, they should be worring about having a secure relationship or marriage plus most if not all the woman who they hook up with over at vegas its because of money, thats all the're after. so to anwer your question no your not wrong and if i were him i start straightning my act out.

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