This tip brought to you by our Dad Guru John Valadez
on Aug 11, 2009
I’ve always been a sucker for long shots. I still root for the underdog in sporting contests. There’s something about a long shot that gives you an exhilarating feeling of joy when they come through. I consider myself a long shot. When it comes to giving people second, third and fourth chances – I just can’t help myself. I am what I am. My ex-wife has recently moved back to our neck of the country after four months of separation from our children. We all make mistakes, but some are unforgivable. At least, in my eyes they are. Despite the numerous chances and mistakes she’s made over the years I’ve decided to give her another chance.
Bukowski once wrote, “ If you're going to try, go all the way." I intend to do just that.
I’m giving all the rope and gratitude I would if she did nothing wrong at all. People deserve chances; some, as many as it takes. I believe we all get to where we are going to eventually end up in life. I’m betting, and hoping for her to be the best mother in the world. My guess is this long shot will come through and prove everyone wrong.
